Who are your safe people?

15 Jul

It’s hard to know who is safe. It takes time to know someone, and even if you think you know them you may not. Just like you, others are good at hiding their trute self. So how do you know if they are safe? Your safe people are the ones that bring you up. complement you, encourage you, the people who won’t let you say anything negative about your self. These are your best cheerleaders!
you may not have many good friends are hard to come by but they are out there, and one way to get them is to be a good friend. Be someone’s best cheerleader, and you can build each other up. you have to remember family is for life, doctors you can fire, but friends you must work to keep, and even then, you may grow apart. this happens don’t be sad just remember that it happens and it will just open the door to new loving people.
when you find you safe people of doctors family and friends. List them and keep them close to your heart.  This way you know who to share your feelings with, with out ridicule.  we also need this strong support system to help keep us from taxing one person.  what we are going through it hard and instead of depending on one person spread your misery out. this is were trained professionals, family, and friends come in. all can help you, just remember friends and family need you to recharge them too. list these people!

when you list them wright out there qualities you like about them and what they can help you with the most.

Person,    Quality,        Helping quality.

Mom,        strength ,     Mentor….. Etc.

Friend 1: wisdom Sex problems

friend 2: Fun Distractions

Doc 1: Head Doc Head Meds (and wow he’s hot) helps me look at attractive people in the eye. 🙂

Doc 2: Physical doc For all physical problems

My Husband: Love Someone to love me warts and all


One Response to “Who are your safe people?”

  1. shelbell7 2. April 2013 at 10:31 #

    Reblogged this on Mind Body Soul: Survivor.

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